Over this long weekend, I have taken some time to truly reflect on the power of asking questions. So often, because it is human nature, when something comes our way that is annoying we tend to react instead of seeking to understand. Even if it is not annoying, but we simply don't agree with what is being asked or stated, our reaction can be less than tolerant. Perhaps there are many times when we could of saved ourselves energy that was wasted on an unecessary misunderstanding because we didn't ask questions.
As a principal, I truly strive to understand before I form an opinion or make a judgement. Relationships are the bedrock of positive human interaction and when something is uncomfortable, new, annoying, unknown, and the list goes on: we need to ask questions to understand.
Of course, this does not mean we need to put up with disrespectful behavior and shouldn't - but we can ask questions to come to understand another person's perspective to form a mutual understanding. For me, there are instances when a non-negotiable is simply that: a non-negotiable. This is part of the principalship. This does not mean I don't value the most important aspect of our school - teachers. Without you, our children do not learn and we do not move forward.
So as we continue our journey together, I respectfully ask for you to ask questions! Although I can list a number of areas that I strive to improve upon, listening happens to be my strength. Perfection, however is not. If you feel there is a mishap in communication or just need to be heard, talk to me.
So grab a cup of coffee or tea, and whenever there is a need, I have an open door, an open mind, and of course chocolate! Continue to be part of our positive school culture. Stop and listen to each other and seek to understand before wasting your energy on negative thoughts. Our work is hard, but together we are accomplishing great things and the rewards are endless.
Kudos
Grace for helping to order MCAS materials
Sunshine for organizing a successful staff party
Additional congrats to new brides: Stephanie and Jen, and newly engaged Stephanie Valentine
Mark Your Calendars
Monday, January 20th: No School: Martin Luther King Day
Wednesday, January 22nd: Leslie Maxwell visit with Grade 1, Administrator SEI class at 3:30 @ Ayers, PTO Meeting @6:30
Thursday, January 23rd: Winter Band Concert 7:00 @ BHS Auditorium
Friday, January 24th: GLM Specialists @ 1:10
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